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Chakras- Touch Massage in Mayfield Dalkeith Edinburgh Midlothian
I have had so many people ask what the is so I have added this page
There are 3 levels of tantric massageLevel 1 is for people who are new to tantric massage The lingham/ yoni is done as well, This is a basic taster session and more for the massage enthusiast
Level 2 is more intense than level 1 and again still covers the lingham/ yoni, In this reflexology edinburgh reiki edinburgh aromatherapy edinburghyou lear how to breathe and tips for control and is a good place to start if you have premature ejaculation
Level 3 is the full tantric experience that lasts about 90 min, without the cermony that normally goes with tantric massage. In p[lace of that is a professional massage that aims to relax and let your mind drift away This level covers the lingham / yoni for a good part of the massage. Level 3 is for people who want to learn Tantric and have the full experience of this wonderfull sensual massage. This massage is for those who are able to control their ejaculation. Or need to learn the control or have a problem and are unable or have difficulty with ejaculation
BACKGROUND INFO:
The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam (pronounced LING-AHM, [LING rhymes with sing]) and is loosely translated as “Wand of Light.” It’s meaning is different in intention from the typical Western view of the penis (i.e., Cock, Prick, Dong, Dick, etc., words that may come from a limited perspective, depending on the intent of their usage). In Tantra/Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, a “Wand of Light” that channels creative energy and pleasure.
The purpose of the Lingam Massage is to create a space the receiver to relax, and receive expanded pleasure from his Lingam. His partner (the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and witnessing the man surrendering to his softer, gentler side. The Lingam Massage can be used as a form of safer sex (when latex gloves are used) and is an excellent process to build trust and intimacy. It is often used to help men heal from negative sexual conditioning and trauma.
Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (the equivalent to the female G-spot), and allow the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be used to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.
Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.
The Principles of Chakra/ Tantric MassageTantra is the total surrender, or letting go of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy may flow through you like a river without any effort. It is a letting go to a universal oneness…to love. When fear is removed, Tantra remains.
The word “Tantra” has many definitions, and perhaps its real meaning has been lost to antiquity. Some say it comes from the Sanskrit or Hindi word for fabric or tapestry, meaning that it is woven into one’s life. Others say that it comes from two Sanskrit words, Tanoti and Trayati - Tanoti means to expand consciousness, and Trayati means to liberate consciousness. One might then say that Tantra expands and liberates consciousness.
The highest possible synthesis between love and meditation, Tantra is also the connection between the third dimension and other planes of existence beyond mere materiality. While not a religious philosophy, Tantra embraces a deep spiritual understanding of life, and an ancient art of living in harmony with existence.
It is treating sexual energy as a friend, rather than something to be suppressed or talked about in low tones. It does not deny sex, or consider sex a hindrance to enlightenment or Heavenly Grace. To the contrary, Tantra is the only spiritual path which says that sex is sacred and not a sin.
Tantrikas are God-loving rather than God-fearing. There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama which means sex/love together, undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th Century Tantric scripture. Kama is also the name for the Hindu Goddess of love… and love is what Tantra encourages-total love, including the mind, the spirit and the body. Let It All Go!
The primary benefit of a Tantra Massage is that you become acquainted with yourself as a sexual being and more awear of yourself as an individual that is not just a mind or body. Through conscious touch, your body and mind will heal and repair itself from the conditioning that has it has had form thinking that pleasure is bad and that spirituality has to involve a denial of our sexuality. Relaxation is the key and by giving up your control in order to receive without having to give anything in return, are ways to open the door to this awareness of ourselves.
For men, there will be a new experience . Men can learn to be receivers and givers not just givers. The typical issues of premature ejaculation, loss of libido, and goal orientation in intimate relationships undergo a fundamental shift. It is essential that you do not touch during this as you need to focus on YOU!!! allowing yourself to become aware and open to the massage. Gradually, they can also learn to circulate their sexual energy for self-rejuvenation, creativity and health.Tantra Massage is a combination of loving touch that gently soothes the body and senses while at the same time stimulating the spiritual life force energy into awakening.
All the chakra centers and lingam are covered in this massage also (prostrate if asked for)
The entire experience encourages you to completely relax into a state of receiving conscious touch and pleasure. Connecting your body and mind to a new experience.
By surrendering action, many new experiences and states of consciousness are available which promote more self confidence, increase your energy and capacity for pleasure, and deep inner peace.
**** Please note this is not a sexual service of any description****
What I offer is a genuine massage and tantric techniques, My aim is to encourage self awareness and help with any problems you may have. Also to teach the tantric if you are willing to learn. This is a unique massage .
The Tantric Massage
I guess the majority of us have heard about Tantric sex and massage. Had anyone asked me what it was exactly I would have giggled shyly and muttered something about gentle touching, feathers, massage and no orgasm. How wrong I was.
Sensual/Tantric massage is basically just a massage. However it was created from the belief that if you are sexually happy and relaxed then your health will benefit. The Hindus describe Tantra as achieving personal growth through pleasurable existence. The massage itself does tend to cause orgasms, but these are described as a bonus rather than the aim.
Although Tantric massage does not involve actual penetrative sex, it does involve full on touching of the organs. For this reason you will not find it offered down your local health centre.
Firstly, from this point on, your manhood is referred to as Lingam (wand of light – don’t be thinking light sabre it’s not that big!) and the lady’s bits are called Yoni (sacred space or sacred temple). Let’s face it those words sound much nicer than the alternatives.
If you are visiting somewhere for your massage you need to decide in advance whether you will be getting naked or not. Proper Tantric masseuse prefer you to be naked, although they are not , they believe this helps the healing process all over your body. If you are shy you can choose to keep some clothes on
Choose some gentle music Now banish all thoughts and any ideas of sex, It’s not that kind of massage. You will lie on your back, legs apart and a cushion under the hips to raise up the Lingam area and a cushion under the head so they can look at their genitals. and although there will not be any penetrative sex this evening and you will be taken to previously unknown heights of sexual satisfaction.
The massage itself involves every part of the body, although I guess the Lingam area will receive more than its fair share of attention. The massaging of the body is to help prepare the receiver for the attention you will be paying their genitals. The point to the massage is to last as long as possible before orgasmic state of bliss. please be aware that orgasm and ejaculation are different and ejaculation does not allways occur, This may happen in 1 out of 50 clients
Lingam Massage
Traditionally the giver, some men may find it difficult to lay back and think of England whilst his therapist goes to work on his wand of light. However, I do suggest you give it a go allowing yourself to receive.
You will lie back on the bed with a pillow under your head to enable you to see what I am doing. I will put a pillow under your hips and spread your legs with your knees bent. The Lingam must be completely exposed. I begin by gently massaging all over your body, avoiding this area for a while. This allows you to become completely relaxed and prepared for the touching of the Lingam.
Please remember not to touch me while I am working, The massage is about YOU and you surrendering and learning to receive, I cannot work if you try and touch, Please respect my bounderies Thank You
Please remember that I am QUALIFIED to practice this massage, unlike many others claiming to practice this wonderful massage at perhaps a little lower rates than mine The difference is I know what I am doing , they are only guessing A true tantric massage is normally more than I am charging. I have tried to keep my prices realistic an affordable. Please keep in mind that a massage alone can cost between £45 .00 - £60.00 depending on area and which massage you choose